Elliott loves animals--and hasn't learned yet that some (most?) animals aren't fond of small children. Particularly the kind of kids (like Elliott) that pull their ears, tail and fur. Along with the ear piercing screeches of joy. Luckily I intercepted him before he so lovingly attacked this dog. I was verbally coaching him about how you have to ask the owner if the dog is friendly and if you can pet them first, all of the things you read about in the parenting books.
The Dad and dog owner was intuitive and saw where I was headed and told me No, in fact the dog wasn't friendly and was a bit temperamental. He went on to say that the dog often growled at kids and was very protective over his son. All the while the small dog was offering E a guttural growl and a nervous demeanor. I carefully extracted my kid from the dogs periphery and said calmly to the owner--perhaps then, it would be a good idea to put your dog on a leash, particularly while you are in a kids park.
I felt bad about it after I said it--typically I am not confrontational. If you are a reader of this blog you will know I am opinionated. But, usually I voice my thoughts and feelings here--and not to peoples faces. The dog owner didn't say anything to me in response. We both just separated. But, I noticed that he did in fact leash his dog shortly thereafter.
What I wonder is why he felt it was ok to bring a temperamental dog to a kids park and allow it off leash? Was I wrong to say something to him? Did I over step my bounds? Am I being to snooty? Would I have said the same thing to another Mom?